I sat down with a group of women who survive by stealing other women’s men and having them pay their bills and way of life.
I found what they said shocking but when you think about it accurate. These women survive by having other women’s men, mostly married men, take care of them. They were not afraid to tell their secrets as they dont see this impacting them at all. They were arrogant but honest. I left this interview feeling both angry with them and myself.
Women fool themselves:
Many women feel no one will want their husbands. maybe hes fat, bald, old etc. This is so wrong! They wanted him and clearly still do if still together so why not someone else? Usually these women take it for granted they have no competition so door is open. In fact they often fail to flatter him or show him any attention in or out of bed. This makes it so easy for us to just walk in. Its start with small talk maybe a slight compliment. We see his reaction and its game on. Before long hes paying my rent.
Failure to praise:
Women after time fail to tell their man whats right with him. However they have no issue telling him whats wrong with him. Men are driven by many things ego is one of them. If you dont tell him whats right he will think nothing is. Thats when we flatter and praise him and before long hes mine!
Taking him for granted:
You women take your men for granted. You ask him to perform tasks and chores nearly everyday and he does them. How often do you thank him? Or are you telling him how he did it wrong!? Did you get up and do it? Did you even try? I have no issues doing things for your man after he does plenty for me and I thank him! If he feels unappreciated you let us in.
You dont listen:
Thats right you dont listen. The very thing you tell him he doesn’t do! I dont have to be in your house I know it happens. He tells you things all the time most of which are hints to you. You miss them. He might casually mention it might be fun sometime to go to a ball game. Do you listen? Do you say lets go or maybe surprise him with tickets? Probably not, you missed your cue. He might drop hints about meals, things to do or even sex! If you had paid attention and listened he would not need us. Men are hint monster if you listen you will get them and take action. I have no issue making him happy and hearing the hints. After all he does plenty for me. We listen are you?
Do you show your man affection? Maybe after time that slowed or stopped. He misses it. I have no issue kissing him in public or even engage in foreplay. He needs to know you care and want him. You dont show him that we will and you will be alone or see his money go to me not you!
Did sex become less and less important? Maybe he doesnt seem interested. Your wrong he is. Have you asked him what he wants or if you want to try something new? Who starts sex play? If its not you it should be. Is he bad in bed? Sweety thats your fault! I have taken the worst lovers and turned them into love machines! Just tell him what you like and want and how to get you there. You make him guess we dont. These men know exactly what I want and how I want so I am never disappointed! I make your man feel sexy.
There is so much more but that is gist of it. I know she can have him then! Sure do that he will be mine until we are done and you will be alone maybe with kids. Finding a new man may take time. If he was worth having he is worth keeping. If you wont work at it we will.