In this article we will discuss this key factor and why its so important to you, your partner, your offspring (if any) and your relationship as a whole.
Put others first:
It may sound simple but often its not. Once you been in a relationship for a bit both tend to no longer try or feel need to impress partner or cater to his/her needs and wants. When we do this we become selfish and this damages relationship. Put your partner and/or your children first
Dont fool yourself:
Dont fool yourself into thinking your doing something for your partner when its really what you want! It easy to do this but if you look honestly its you who wanted to do this. Example a new Romantic comedy starring a favorite actor of yours. You know your partner seems to enjoy the films so you decide you two will go or even bring kids. Did you think he may not want to go? What about kids? Now they may not mind but maybe rather had seen something else or stayed home. In this case you fooled yourself into thinking you were suggesting something for all when it was really for you! If this continues it can build a wedge between you and those you care about
Why this important:
Its very simple. When we do for others it makes us feel good. We all know that feeling we get inside when we have done something that pleased others. Its warm and nice. It makes us feel good. If we feel good we are happy. It also brings us closer to those we love. In return we gain love from those around us. We remove any insecurities and build trust. Its a win/win for all we all feel happy and grow closer. So remember when dealing with your relationships to put them first.
By putting others first we certainly do not mean ignoring your needs or making huge sacrifices no on else is making. Its about not being selfish and thinking of others first. This is one of many ways to show you care.