Ladies being “slutty” actually has more perks than you think. Women have often been looked at in a negative way for looking “slutty”. That may be a false negative as there are plenty of perks or for looking “slutty”. I chose Amber Rose as icon for this as she actually supports a “slutty” look and has a fund raiser she calls “Slut Walk”. Never being one to dress conservative she is good icon for this article.
Lets define “Slutty” for this article (only). When I refer to slutty I am talking about types of dress, conversations and/or openness about sex and their fondness of it. We are NOT talking about prostitutes or the like. Just every day women who embrace being sexy or “slutty”. Now lets move on to the “perks”.
Being “slutty” often brings forth an aura of Self Confidence. A woman who embraces her “slutty” side is confident with both her body and herself as dressing “slutty” often requires lots of exposed skin IE cleavage, legs and thighs etc. A self confident woman will likely be successful in all areas of her life. It can actually start with being “slutty”. A confident woman will also be more attractive to possible romantic interest. This self confidence will show in their openness when talking about sex and what they like or dont like. This can remove many of the sex problems that come from lack of communication. Ever see Maury and cant figure out why this huge women can wiggle their butts as if they have perfect body and are feeling sexy at 300 lbs? Its “self confidence”.
Ok men are voyeuristic best way to get their attention is by showing skin. Ever see the TMZ website or others? Its filled with scantly clad women. Its meant to get attention of men and it works. The Kardashians know this well as we often see them in various states of undress. In fact what made them rise to fame? a sex tape! In short skin! Ladies if your man is asking you to dress “slutty” this is GREAT news! Its means he still finds you sexy and wants you to embrace this. Ladies which would you prefer him looking at your cleavage or porn on his computer? Men dont be afraid to be ok with this she chose you dont worry about other men looking at her shes yours!
Dressing “slutty” gets you attention! Attention means your noticed this can benefit you in many ways. Dont blend in stand out. the benefits out way any negative. If your lost in the crowd you could be lost all together.
Yes I said better sex. When I say better sex I mean for both of you! For you ladies as you feel sexier you let loose more and enjoy sex much more. You might even find yourself letting go more and becoming more open to discussing sex with your partner and what you want, desire or would like to try. For men the addition of the new “slutty” look gets him thinking more about sex and might even have him up his game! Men (as stated) are very voyeuristic your “slutty” look made put spark back into your sex life. Not getting enough sex or your man seems uninterested? This “slutty” look will likely change that.
Ladies dont worry about what people say or think worry about your self and your partner no one else really counts.