Often we forget to let our partners know just how desirable they still are. This write up will address just this issue
After a time we forget to tell our partner we still find them sexually desirable or “hot’! When this happens the other partner may feel he/she has lost his/her attractiveness. Where this may be false its still important that the burning desire is still there. Age does not make you less sexy. Age may take its toll but in should know way cause your partner to no longer desire you. Physical appearance is only one means of being sexually attractive. So what happens or better yet how do we fix things if we have failed to continue to show our partner they are still desirable?
Before we do that lets talk about why this is important. The self esteem of your partner is very important to your relationship. If one or both have low self esteem problems will arise in relationship. In addition infidelity becomes more likely. If another shows desire in your partner and your not this could provoke a relationship ending decision. Keep in mind no matter what you may think there is one or more persons out there who would love a roll in the hay with your partner. So what can we do to ensure our partner knows they are still sexy? Even more so what if time, jobs and more keep you from engaging in intimacy as often as you would like? See suggestions below
Sexting and sexy notes:
No time for sex? Ok goal here is to make sure your partner knows they are still sexy to you. Sexting is a great way to do this. Send a provocative pic or sexy text. You might even send your partner a pic of them self saying how sexy they are. No phone or concerned who may see? No problem leave them a sexy note in their pocket, purse, lunch etc. It gets message to partner. remember you want him/her to know you think he/she is still HOT!
Touching and fondling:
Many woman (in particular) find this annoying…. until it stops. However it can apply to either or both sexes. Nothing tells your partner they are still sexy more than touching, fondling, rubbing etc their breasts, thighs, crotch etc. Even an unprovoked kiss on the neck will do as well. Foreplay like this does not have to mean actual sex. This can happen in car, kitchen, park etc anywhere is fair game! If your fondling your partner they know you desire them sexually. Who knows could lead to quickie.
Nothing gets message to them better than just telling them. Does not have to lead to sex maybe as one of both are you are off to work tell them how sexy they are? Is your partner looking well today? Tell they look nice and add sexy to it. Do you really want your partner to feel sexy? Tell them you want sex! doesn’t have to be now just that you want him/her.
Quickies are nice as they are enjoyable even though the female may not reach orgasm. They do tell your partner they are sexy. So arrange a quickie. Surprise your partner with sex. Join partner in shower, wake him/her, place your genitals in his/her hand or mouth. the list is endless.
Remember if you or your partner feels undesired this will at some point cause problems in your relationship so unless you dont care for sex the above should fix this issue. You can also go to http://www.parentnook.com/forum/ and discuss this more on our forum.