In this write up we will discuss what men don’t say but should. The media depicts men as tough with little or no feelings or at very least lacking the skills to share those feelings. In many cases this is true although we wont discuss any reasons as to why here. Ladies knowing this you have to be a bit of a mind reader or perceptive at very least. Here we will bring up this issue and help you uncover what your man needs and/or wants. He may not say it but he is clearly trying to get the message to you. Once you know this and can decipher his hidden hints you can make your relationship stronger.
For the most part its about Food, Sex and play not always in that order. However he has feelings too he just doesn’t show them very well and talks about them even less. Ladies I am going to help you figure out what he wants or feels and you can decide how to respond to this for yourself.
Yes he has feelings and yes he can be hurt by small things. He (like you) wants to be reassured you care. Find ways to let him know you care. Need advice on how? Easy watch him. Whatever he is doing to let you know he cares is a good guideline for what you can do. If he is giving you gifts then give him some. Price is not the issue its the act. If you see his favorite drink at store buy him one just because. Your telling him your thinking of him and he is important to you. This is just an example so again look to him for your examples.
Let him know you care about his day and his feelings towards his day. Listen to him! He needs to know hes important by listening to his day maybe giving him understanding over a tough day lets him know you care. He may want to know about your day but turn things around ask about his first.
Make his favorite meal and tell him you wanted to because its his favorite. Food is a great tool with men and making him his favorite meal tells him again your thinking about him.
Where does play come in:
Men take awhile to grow up unlike women. He wants to play still maybe well into his 40’s or later! Game consoles are a great tool and most men enjoy them. They keep him in the house and give him a chance to be a big boy. Why not go to a Ball game with him? Ok so its not your ideal date but its something he enjoys. If you investigated closely you might find he goes many places with you he rather not. He does so because he cares and wants to spend time with you. You can do the same. You can let him have his night or day out to play ball go bowling etc. In fact depending on what he is doing you might do it with him. Bowling is something you can do together maybe even join a league. Many of these leagues take trip when league is over. Something else you can do together as your bowling fees help finance trip. You know your man find what he likes and go from there. Let the boy out he will be much happier
Ok you knew we would get to this. Its not as simple as you think. Yes he wants sex and you as well. However there are aspects of sex and sex acts that can help tell your man you care. Ok so you often catch your man watching bath, shower, dress etc. You don’t mind too much because its telling you hes still attracted to you. You also don’t mind the groping as it tells you same thing. You even giggle when he sends you a “penis pic”. However he needs to know as well he is wanted. What can you do to let him know you still find him sexually attractive? Have you groped him? Do you send or just comment on his naughty pics? If not maybe he should. When he does these things he is watching for a response from you. If you do not respond he feels you don’t see him as a sexual attraction anymore. He wants to be wanted so let him know hes wanted. When was last time you initiated sex? Maybe you should. It tells him you want him. By the way just because he hasn’t made a move on you doesn’t mean he doesn’t want it tonight. He might want you to make that first move tonight. Watch for hints like. Positioning himself in a way that places your hand or hands very close to his genitalia region even if awkward for him. Is he stroking you more than usual or at all? He might be testing the waters to see how you respond in short he is trying to make you horny. Has he placed his hand on your upper thigh? These are hints he wants sex but wants you to start it. Watch your man for hints he WILL provide them you just need to pay attention. Here are some tips for you that will not only drive him crazy but tell him he is desired. Don’t wait for him to grope you, you grope him first. If his hand is on your thigh grab his hand and put higher. If your wearing a dress or shorts place his hand on your crotch. Start kissing him all over. Place your breast or breasts in his hand or mouth. Whisper in his ear you want him. Tell him what you want him to do to you and how much you love it when he does it. This will increase the times you get this. Once a man knows what you enjoy he will provide it more often.