Many of us ignore or disregard when our partner says “There is something wrong”. Nothing could be further from the truth! Fact is our partner is trying to communicate a concern he/she has. It may be small or even unimportant to you. However if left unattended it can ruin and otherwise beautiful relationship. In any successful relationship the two partners talk! If your not talking and sharing then your relationship is not what you think. No matter how small you may feel it is and, may well be, to your partner its not now or any longer. You need to listen! You dont have to agree but you do need to listen. Even if he/she is wrong you need to ensure the issue gets resolved. Maybe a compromise is in order? Regardless if your partner has spoken up about it it needs to be dealt with. Maybe its something you didnt even know about. Great now you two can talk it out and fix it. If your partner is even a little bit unhappy about it then fix it. If left alone the frustration will grow and could become a HUGE problem. Communication is your key to happiness so if your partner says he/she has an issue (even a small one) then listen and talk! do not get angry or you risk your partner no longer speaking up. Listen talk and share. If he/she is wrong or misunderstood explain without anger! Anger will ruin the communication and shut down future talks. Listen understand work together to resolve issue. Just remember if your partner feel strong enough to bring it up then you two need to address it.
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